I lean on a couple of key phases, which helps with your #3. “Don’t use ‘gay’ to mean something derogatory” is a go-to. I’ve also learnt “That sounds like soemthing a racist would say” works better than “you’re racist!!” as an opener.
Still makes my palms clammy and face red every time though!
I lean on a couple of key phases, which helps with your #3. “Don’t use ‘gay’ to mean something derogatory” is a go-to. I’ve also learnt “That sounds like soemthing a racist would say” works better than “you’re racist!!” as an opener.
Still makes my palms clammy and face red every time though!
Those are such good one liners. I have yet to stop feeling utterly panicked after doing stuff like this but if I ever clock it, I’ll let you know 😅